Lesson Help is Here!

There is a point in every school counselor’s life when everything begins to pile up. It’s at this very moment that we realize our creative lesson planning has taken a back seat. 

I was trying to think what I needed most during these times. READY TO USE LESSONS! I needed a place where I could go that would have everything I needed in one place. And not just a creative, cutesy lesson, but one that built on our ASCA mindsets and behaviors  AND also hit all my students’ social-emotional goals. 

Well that’s exactly what I’ve decided to offer you! You see I may not be in the school every day any more, but every day I do hear how much my lessons made a difference and how much my kiddos miss me. So, if I can’t use them, someone should!  Continue reading →

Optimism: The Power of Positive Self-Talk

Optimism is often a hard one to teach. Young children like to generalize optimism to mean, “I will be happy all the time otherwise it’s bad.” Well . . . that thought process is only erasing every single emotional awareness lesson I ever taught.

This year I was trying to think of a way to make optimism an internal feeling and not an outward display of happiness. How do we feel hopeful about things even in our darkest days? Positive self-talk! And then the Shield of Optimism was born . . . 

Optimism The Power of Positive Self Talk

Positive self-talk is the amazing ability to tell ourselves just how special and important and good and wonderful we are so that we have the resilience to approach difficult situations with confidence. I took this approach when teaching my K-4 students about optimism. We should talk to ourselves like we would a great friend . . . and if that’s not happening, then let’s look at how we fix it. 

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Updated: The Bully is Back in Town

I have had SO much interest in my The Bully is Back in Town post from nearly 4 years ago! It was one of my firsts. 

There were pieces of it I loved and pieces that I hated myself a little bit for also. When I began counseling, our head of school at the time was big on creating or having or using some sort of “bullying program.” I know I make it very clear often that I don’t really LOVE (in fact really dislike) using the word bullying. But sometimes, you gotta do what you gotta do to make certain people happy. 

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Kimochis Extension Activities

I am love, love, LOVING the new Kimochis program for our Preschoolers. I have even gotten some of my mommy friends to buy the program for use at home . . . that’s how much I believe in what it is teaching! 

I have noticed that it seems to move quite fast, not practicing the skill long enough for my 3s. So, I took a step back and began creating some extension activities on concepts I think are really important, or need practiced more (because they may or may not be continual issues at school), or because they build on my elementary program. 

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How to Explain Red Ribbon Week to Our Little Guys

I struggle each year with a creative way to explain Red Ribbon Week to my younger preschool and elementary-aged students. I don’t think this community of children need to hear the repeated “Don’t Do Drugs” mantra. It just doesn’t make much sense to them. In fact, I didn’t even buy red ribbons for my students this year. 

GASP! I know. What a terrible, terrible counselor. But I’ll be honest. I wanted a more meaningful activity. One that they might actually remember and keep as a momento. Not a red ribbon that will be splattered with ketchup and mud in 4 minutes, fall off before lunch, and find stuck to the bottom of someone’s shoe on their way out to carpool. 

How To Explain RRW to Young Students

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Parent Tip Tuesday: When to Talk to Your Child’s School Counselor

It was reported by the U.S. Department of Education that many teachers say they don’t often receive information about problems at home from their student’s parents. I think many teachers, counselors, and administrators would agree. But, on the flip side, parents often report that they don’t know what the school expects from them, as parents. It’s a tough balance to know just what information to share with your child’s school and knowing when you may have over shared. In general, anything you can share, as a parent, helps schools become better prepared to meet your child’s specific needs. So the questions remains, when exactly do I contact the school about problems my child may be experiencing?

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